Hello and welcome to the first lesson in my BDSM workshop! Today we are discussion what BDSM is, and what BDSM most certainly isn't! When I started my journey into the world of BDSM, I had an idea that the subculture looked like, or so I thought! Dark, gothic and brooding with plenty of whips, … Continue reading Beginners: What is BDSM?
There is a general consensus in many BDSM communities that brats are bad news, but that's not always the case. Indeed, while there are numerous examples of bad bratty behaviour, there are also as many submissives who display good or at least more desirable bratty behaviour, and they need to be respected and loved. What … Continue reading In Defence Of Brats: A Guide
Sometimes in life, it's not possible for our kinky sessions to go ahead. It can happen for a number of reasons, whether one party is sick, our Dominant has a huge workload or our submissive just isn't feeling like submitting. It's important to understand that BDSM play can, and often does, get called off for … Continue reading 8 Tips For Coping When Playtime Gets Cancelled
Photo by Manos Kolovouris on Unsplash Something I rarely talk about is my disabilities. Indeed, one of my disabilities puts me through large amounts of pain on a daily basis. Even as I write this, my wrist is arguing with me, demanding that I stop and give in. Of course, I'm tenacious, and if my body tells me … Continue reading On Kink & Disability: Why Would Someone In Pain Want To Be In Even MORE Pain?
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com Plagiarism: the process or practice of using another person's ideas or work and pretending that it is your own.Cambridge Dictionary This morning I lay awake and I was mindful of some idea-stealing that had gone on recently. Bothered by the notion, I messaged my dear real-life-and-blogger friend Bill at Rope, Roses & Red. Because of his sound advice, he is the reason … Continue reading Blogging & Plagiarism And How To Avoid It
My beautiful butterfly nipple clamps Let it be known, I have super, super sensitive nipples, to the point that I have to wear a bra if only to stop darn things getting excited by the friction of my t-shirt. It's not that I need support from a bra, flatter chested woman can get away with … Continue reading I Tried Nipple Clamps Again… And Fell In Love The Third Time Around! (Bad Kitty Butterfly Nipple Clamps Review, And How To Use Nipple Clamps Properly!)
Photo by Anton Hooijdonk on Pexels.com You see these lists pop up occasionally, and every time they say they are songs that we didn't know were about BDSM. But you know what? Yes! Yes we did! And you know why? Because it's so obvious that it is! Whether it's Depeche Mode's Master & Servant or … Continue reading 20 Songs That You You Didn’t Know Were About BDSM (Kind Of)